Tom
Your post is rather enlightening as to the broad church and you are no exception to the diversity of the members. I hope you read this thread and the following comments from here on in. As I said, and MisterCorn reiterated, the number plate sub-forum is our back shed, if you like. Your claim of being unwelcoming or unfriendly is absolutely untrue. If you were to wade into the rest of the forum, you'll find all new members are welcomed warmly and enthusiastically. Don't take my word on it, spend some time in the newbie subforum and all you'll see is thread after thread of genuine people being welcomed. Only non genuine members(chat bots/Indian trolls/etc) get weeded out.
To further hammer the point home, if you were to look through the forum and read through threads where people have had a catastrophic failure, you'll see nothing but a pouring out of support for that person, offering consolation and advice on how to resolve their predicament.
One last point, if you were to attend any of the events that get out on through the year, you'd find that this group is in fact a welcoming and inclusive group of people. Moving to the UK, I knew no one around where I live. There wasn't a local meet so suggested on here if any one was interested. Heading into a 3rd year of meets, I can tell you that in the north west, we have a community of some of the nicest guys you'll ever have the pleasure of meeting, albeit they stick the needle in when it comes to being Aussie. We've had members from other regions come and visit, again just more great people. I know that if I attended any other regions meet, I'd be welcomed with open arms.
So before you slate this ecosystem off, have a broad look at what really goes in here, and not an ancillary corner of this forum where you were into.
I hope you get a chance to read this, and the above posts and it changes hour mind on 911uk